An article written for a blog about aging in 2022. This article discusses options for social media, specifically Facebook, for when one passes away.
People die – it’s a fact of life. As people get older, and have people to take care of even when they’re gone, it is wise to plan out what happens after death. There is much to consider, like insurance, inheritance, distribution of personal items, and so on. But today is a digital age. What happens to social media accounts after people die? Are accounts just deleted? And who, among your grieving family, will think that through? And do you really want to put your family through searching for your password book?
Luckily, Facebook has created an alternate solution with a Facebook Memorial Pages. This allows people to choose how they are remembered in the hearts of their friends and families. People can visit the departed's page and remember times when they were together, allowing a unique record of life. Rather than an obituary, which is written by somebody else, a memorialized Facebook account is a record of life, of friends, of thoughts, and of experiences, many which were posted in the moment. It’s a snapshot of life and memories.
These pages are distinct from other Facebook pages, with “Remembering” stated before the person’s name. This allows family and friends to share memories and engage with one another, fully aware of the departed's passing.
Memorialized Facebook pages don’t appear in public spaces, such as ads or birthday reminders, so it can be avoided or perused at a friend’s discretion, allowing everyone to grieve at their own pace.
Many of these accounts are managed by a Legacy Contact, a person chosen by the original account holder to oversee the account. They can manage posts, change visibility, update the profile and banner pictures, and respond to friend requests. This allows them to keep your page pristine after you’re gone, creating or deleting posts or tags as needed. Legacy Contacts are unable to edit your past posts, photos, read your messages, or delete your friends; this is not a way for them to replace you. Rather, the Legacy Contact is there to keep an eye on the page and connect with family and friends.
A Legacy Contact can be added or changed easily on your Facebook account, under the Memorialization Settings tab.
Or, if this doesn’t appeal to you, the Memorization Settings tab also provides the option to have your account permanently deleted once they receive notice of your death.
Remember that social media is your way of reaching out to others. If memorializing your account will help you stay alive in the minds of your relatives, this may be a wonderful option and one less thing to worry about down the road. But it won’t be for everyone. If your Facebook page is a barren wasteland, or you have no desire for any of it to remain, it can easily be deleted. However, making these decisions while alive will save your family from trying to figure out what you would have wanted while they are grieving.
An article written at Southern Virginia University and published in The Herald, the school paper, in 2021, about a new program called The Center for Popular Fiction, headed by Orson Scott Card.
Southern Virginia University Professor Orson Scott Card often tells his students, “Stories will grab you by the heart and pull you through.” Students participating in Southern Virginia University’s new program, the Center for Popular Fiction, are learning exactly how to write these heart-pulling stories.
The Center for Popular Fiction, first launched in 2019, is designed for students who want to become fiction authors for any genre, from children’s fantasy to science fiction. “What you need is a workshop then, that won't focus on characterization and symbolism: You need a place that likes and understands popular fiction. This is a place for those who buy books to read them, not to look good on their bookshelf,” Card says.
The Center for Popular Fiction provides classes and workshops, taught by Professor Card and Professor Karen Hufford. To complete the program, students must participate for two years, taking the Popular Fiction Practicum every semester, and at least one additional practical class taught by Professor Card. Professor Dallin Lewis says, “We really see it as an opportunity for students to think of themselves more as writers of fiction than simply students.”
“I don’t know of a writing course in the country that isn't about writing well, but about writing stories,” Card says. And that is what he is aiming to deliver in this program. Students aren't there to learn to write words - they are in college already. They should have learned that long ago. This program is designed to help teach how to write stories. To do that, the classes focus on topics like writing with clarity, building structure, using viewpoint, and understanding narrative and scenes. “I want them to write stories that plant characters in the minds of readers and write something that communicates and shows human life, not something artsy,” he says.
In the end, this program is designed to give students all the tools to become professional writers, providing lessons about techniques and personal stories about the writing business and cautionary tales about mistakes other authors wish they didn't make.
Lewis says, “This is to get students prepared to publish stories of their own.”